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Wednesday, August 29, 2007

 

Dear Internet People, Please Calm Down

Yesterday when I wrote the post Too Cool For Rules I sort of meant it tongue-in-cheek. I shouldn't have to explain myself because this is my blog but I do want people to know that we are not idiots and we certainly aren't bad parents. We just believe a tiny bit in what is defined as "anarchist parenting". Anyway, I said a tiny bit because as usual there is more to it than that but some of our beliefs coincide with AP. We also OBVIOUSLY understand that much of this doesn't apply to the world we are currently living in. And it certainly can't apply when your child is in the public school system. But it's nice to actually be able to talk about it which is exactly what I was doing.

We live in a screwed up world where everybody is an expert and everybody is afraid of breaking rules and we're all so worried about what everyone else does and has, that we can't think for ourselves anymore.

Ultimately, that post was about my thoughts and our ongoing discussion as parents. When it comes down to it, all we want our children to really learn is that it's OK to be late and to not get so caught up in freaking out over being late IF and WHEN it happens. Haven't you ever heard of "better late than never"?

I guess saying f**k authority freaks some people out. I guess those people never break rules and get to their required destinations 30 minutes early. Yeah, OK. That's so not how we are. I wonder if there is anyone on this planet who hasn't wanted to say f**k the rules every now and then?

PS. Don't take everything you read on the Internet so seriously. And now go watch this video. It's funny! But don't hate me. I didn't make it.

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Tuesday, March 06, 2007

 

Resisting The Perfect Mom?

As mothers, most of us think we are always doing something wrong or that we could always be doing something better for ourselves or for our kids. We constantly look to what our friends or family or the nearest self help parenting book is doing and if what we do isn't the same, we feel like a failure. Oh, why, oh why was this given to us?

My husband says I constantly over-analyze and that I read too many parenting books, and that I put too much faith into what I read on the Internet. Um, yeah, that third one can be dangerous. It allows you to read about so many different parenting styles and perspectives first hand that it drives you crazy because you never know what the hell you should be doing.

Why can't we just be OK with who we are? Why do we compare ourselves to what every other Mother/Parent out there is doing?

On most days, I'm Ok with me BUT my confidence wavers when I read about what other parents are doing, or if I talk to our family or simply by seeing typical parents out and about in our small town.

Why do we find it so hard to resist that which society says we should be if it does not work for us?

Oh the joys of motherhood...and my ramblings...

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