I’m Probably an Alpha-Beta Mix Mom!
Or maybe I’m neither. If you are in the dark about what an alpha or beta(slacker) mom is then go to this article to get caught up on all this drama & labeling!
Sometimes I think I’m like an Alpha mom and it would appear that I am because
Most of my life is digital, I’m tech savvy, I’m connected to the internet most of the day and I go to sites and blogs for advice.
I’m educated
I run a business online
I spend most of our household money
I feel like everything should be perfect for my kids
One thing I do agree on is this quote from the CBS news website and I think all moms, not just alpha moms, would do this:
“Smith learned that researchers believe that if you satisfy an Alpha Mom, she’ll tell 10 other women. And if you dissatisfy her, she’ll tell 300″.
Then other times I’m a big slacker also known as beta mom
I feed my kids junk food
I let my kids watch Spongebob & tons of other movies while I do necessary work and by necessary work I do not mean clean the house, I mean a job that puts food on our table (and what is wrong with that? I mean, SERIOUSLY?).
We don’t do playgroups
I prefer to let my boys play in the yard instead.
I don’t feel it’s necessary to throw my kids into every extracurricular activity coming and going.
I’m relaxed most of the time and although I do worry about doing everything in my power to raise good children, I don’t go overboard and I’m not over the top on everything that involves my children or how I parent them. I know I can’t be a Supermom.
And, now that I’m getting down to the end of this entry, I realize that none of this labeling really matters anyway. All that matters is that I love my children, support them and who they are as individuals, teach them, be the best I can for them, and spend my time with them. Because all we really have is time and memories.





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